The Financial Value of Networking

By Steve Davis, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER ™

It used to be that there were two types of people in the world: the haves and the have-nots. Today, there are three: the haves, the have-nots and the have-not-paid-for-what-they-haves. While we might smile at this description, it really isn’t funny. One of the most important, if not most difficult, principles of finance is to spend less than you earn.

So how do you do that in today’s economy? Many folks focus on trying to cut costs; they skip their morning Starbucks in favor of coffee brewed at home, for example. But really, how much does this help when gas prices go through the roof? Admittedly, there are some ways to cut significant monthly expenses by refinancing to a lower home mortgage rate, or switching insurance coverage for your home, auto or health. But there is only so much you can do to cut your spending. Earning more income, however, may be a better option to meet the goal of spending less than you earn.

One way toward increased earnings is through building better relationships. Long before Facebook and LinkedIn, a wise man once said, “It’s not what you know, but who you know that makes the difference.” The reality is that income is often derived from the relationships we build and nurture. Think about it for a moment. What happens if your relationship with your boss and your coworkers sours? You lose your job – your income goes down. What happens if you build stronger relationships with your boss and your coworkers? Your income goes up – you get raises and promotions. For many families, adding income means taking a second job or starting a small business – and there is nothing better than having a strong network of friends and associates to help you get the interview or find more clients.

Jen Vondenbrink is co-host and producer of the upcoming “Not Business as Usual” networking conference. She says, “The key to networking — whether it’s online or in person — is to enjoy it. Gone are the days of merely collecting business cards. Today, networking is about demonstrating your willingness to give and add value before ever asking for anything in return.” With some willpower and effort, developing an extensive network of friends and business partners is attainable. Having good relationships — true friendship and reliable business partnerships — is one secret to happiness, wealth building and career success.

Here are two tips to get you started:

1. Talk to people. Surround yourself with people by going to where the people are. Attend conferences and conventions and meetings.

  • The Chamber of Commerce offers all sorts of opportunities such as small seminars and a monthly networking event called “Business After Hours”. They’re currently holding a membership drive too so now is the time to join if you’re not already a member.
  • The “Not Business As Usual” Conference will be held at the Mansfield Holiday Inn on October 27 and according to Vondenbrink, promises to “connect you with innovated strategists, business professionals and industry experts who will inspire you to “take-action” towards growing your business and becoming more profitable”.

2. Follow up and Keep in Touch. If you say you’re going to do something, by all means do it. Otherwise you’re just another schmoozer. According to local business coach Greg DeSimone, “Sharing information – whether it’s a website, article, report of referral — builds your credibility. When you meet someone you would like to keep in touch with, send a quick follow-up email inviting them to connect with you on LinkedIn.” DeSimone continues, “You build relationships by being useful to the other person and helping them. If you can do that consistently without expecting anything in return, a funny thing happens — people reach out to help you.”

This article was written by Steve Davis and appeared in the column “Talking with Davis about Money Matters” found at http://mansfield-ma.patch.com/

Financial Routines for Financial Success

By Steve Davis, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER ™

There’s a different routine in my house these days. I’m writing this on the first day of school for my younger two boys and over the past few weeks my older two sons have gone to their respective colleges (VCU in Richmond and MassArt in Boston). The lazy days of summer are over and the kids are going to bed early and getting up at the crack of dawn. And with the older boys out of the house, there is no more having to wait up until they’re safely in the driveway after a night out with friends. It’s great!

For many families, the beginning of the school year marks the start of new routines — packing lunches in the morning, extra-curricular activities in the afternoon and homework at night. At dinner tonight, our family talked about the day’s events and about the changes to our schedules and routines. We spoke about how success in the classroom often starts with having a good attitude toward school. And this got me thinking about personal finance and how simple changes in one’s attitude and routine can often have a profound effect.



Eat Your Brocolli



A lot of people view personal finance as complete drudgery, a task to be avoided in favor of … pretty much anything else in life. For folks who keep that negative attitude, personal finance success will be very difficult. Instead, we should view it as a personal challenge – just like eating our broccoli. Who knows, if you go into it with a positive attitude, maybe you’ll find it isn’t that bad after all. It took me a long time, but I finally realized broccoli doesn’t taste so bad; in fact, I think it’s delicious.

 

Perhaps you’ve got the equivalent to cold broccoli sitting on the corner of your empty dinner plate. I can’t begin to tell you how many people I meet who have sizable amounts of money saved up in their old company’s 401k plan, but who never really pay any attention to the portfolio; it just sits there neglected. Simalarly, you’d be surprised at how many times bank CDs get automatically rolled over at ridiculously low interest rates just because individuals don’t take the time to explore their options. If you’re ready to start a new financial routine, you need to start with a checkup.  
Create Habits to Handle Personal Finance

Take a moment and think about how you currently handle your personal finances. Do you have a system for paying your bills on time? Letting a bill sit on your desk even one day too long can cost you in hefty late payments or lost discounts. How about your investments? Do you check your portfolio regularly and know what you’re investing in? What about the way you budget for vacations or big ticket purchases or expenses? After some self-examination you should be able to determine whether your existing financial habits are good ones or bad ones in need of change.

The goal, of course, is to create good financial routines which become habits that are burned into your subconscious – things you do because you’ve trained your mind to do them automatically. It is financial routines like this that play a huge role in financial success.

This article was written by Steve Davis and appeared in the column “Talking with Davis about Money Matters” found at http://mansfield-ma.patch.com



5 Money Tips Every College Freshmen Should Know

By Steve Davis, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER ™

For many college freshman and their parents, the next few weeks will be the beginning of a new adventure. I should know since another one of my boys heads off to college this year. The freshmen are leaving home, orientation is in full-swing and the students are sizing each other up and getting used to their new surroundings. Similarly, parents are getting acclimated to new surroundings too – an unusual silence in the home and questions about how best to fill the hours that were previously spent with our sons and daughters watching their sporting events and attending their school activities.

Saying Goodbye: Toy Story 3                        © Disney/Pixar
As a parent, I have conflicting emotions; I eagerly anticipate the wonderful experiences my son will enjoy over the next four years, and like Andy’s mom in Toy Story 3, I have feelings of melancholy and longing. Parents of college freshmen will fondly remember reading bed-time stories and taking their sons or daughters to the soccer fields on Saturday mornings. For those of us who can’t comprehend that it has already been 18 years since our kids were born, they will quickly show us that the next four years will go even faster.

Members of this year’s freshman class, most of them born in 1993, grew up just as the internet was starting to take off. This was incredibly helpful for parents like me who often turned to their kids to get tips on how to use the “interweb” or how to fix their computers. Yet for all the help our kids have given us, we are still their parents and can offer valuable advice too – even if they won’t recognize our wisdom for a few more years. As Mark Twain once said, “When I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in a few short years.” 
Here are five money tips every college freshmen should know.

1. Go to Class. While it may be tempting to sleep-in and skip that early Monday morning English 101 class, doing so is like throwing money out the window. I hate to state the obvious, but college is expensive. According to a newly released Sallie May study, college costs last year averaged $21,889, and some schools like Northeastern University cost more than $50,000 per year. Assuming a schedule of four classes that meet three times per week over a fifteen week semester, each class skipped costs between $120 and $275. That’s some expensive shut-eye.

2. Don’t get a credit card. Sure, the guys sitting behind the sign-up table may be offering some free t-shirts and cool merchandise as an enticement to get you to apply for their credit card, but they’re not there to help you. College campuses are where many young Americans are introduced to credit and the possibility of spending beyond their means – a problem confronting the nation as a whole. If you must use a credit card, avoid non-academic debt. It might seem like a good idea to put that restaurant tab or your new iPad on a credit card, but it’s not. Learn to save, and then splurge.

3. Don’t hang out with big spenders. You’re a college student, so live like one. Don’t pretend to live a lifestyle you can’t afford. Some kids have parents with deep pockets while others are on their way to financial ruin. Hanging out with these free spenders can lead you to spend more than you can afford. Instead, socialize in the dorms, learn to cook in your apartment, use your student ID and take advantage of campus activities and student discounts.
4. Have a Spending Plan. Set a weekly budget for spending categories like food, entertainment, road-trips and the like. At the start of each month, estimate how much income you’ll receive and decide how much you want to allocate to each category. If you anticipate taking a date to an expensive restaurant, skip your morning cup at Starbucks that month or reduce spending in other areas. It is amazing how little things can add up. A couple of energy drinks, lunch at the local Chipotle, several ATM fees and a couple of apps for your iPad means that at the end of the month you may find yourself looking at a large part of your budget going towards “inexpensive” things you splurged on without thinking. Spend less than you earn.

5. Get a job. Being broke in college is no fun. If you would like to spend more, you’ll need to earn more. If you need or want a job, look for ones that you can eventually put on your resume or will bolster your internship options later on. Alternatively, seek out positions that add to your personal development. Like to mountain climb? Work at a rock gym. Enjoy cooking? Get a job in a restaurant. Want to help people? Try a non-profit. Finally, remember the story of Facebook and consider starting your own business. It could be that you have an idea that might be the next big thing, but it could equally be a simple babysitting service, tutoring, or buying and reselling stuff on eBay. Above all, remember that your first “job” is to graduate on time. Earning some extra cash each month is great but those semesters of school don’t come cheap.

Now stop worrying about money and get out there and have some fun. I’ll see you when you come home for Thanksgiving!

This article was written by Steve Davis and appeared in the column “Talking with Davis about Money Matters” found at http://mansfield-ma.patch.com/articles/five-money-tips-every-college-freshmen-should-know